Couples to be happy in a relationship should build a strong and positive relationship. Inorder to have succesful relationship that keeps growing stronger each day, you have to put in a lot of effort and work.
A psychiatrist, international speaker and best selling author of numerous best-selling books named Dr. Mark Goulston is known to be the author of the famous 10 Habits of Happy Couples, that has been read by over half a million people.
Dr. Galston provides some interesting insight on the 10 habits that will allow and your loved one to keep the magic going.
Here are the 10 Common Habits Of Happy Couples:
1. Go to bed at the same time
*When the beginning of your relationship, you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other to make love. Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. At the same time they go to bed, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.
2. Cultivate commn interests
*Realize your common interests after the passion settles down. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. Be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.
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3. Walk hand in hand or side by side
*Happy couples know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.
4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode
*If they have an argument and can not resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.
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5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong
*If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. Happy couples accentuate the positive.
6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work
*Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the “good touch,” which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.
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7. . Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning.
*A great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and another annoyances is saying I Love You.
8. #8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel.
*This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship.
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9. #9. Do a “weather” check during the day.
*Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work.
10. #10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
*Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact — hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.
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